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You feel happiest when you create a healthy balance between giving and receiving. If you give and give 小题1:w_______making time to fill your own needs, then it"s likely you will小题2:b_______ out, or feel upset. When you take and take without giving anything back, you never feel fulfilled , so you are always 小题3:s___________ for ways to fill the void in your life.
The way to create a healthy balance between giving and receiving is to know and then live by your values. I 小题4:d_______ values into two groups which I call being and having values. Your being values are the personalities of the小题5:i________ person you would like to be. I suggest to my clients that they choose three being values that they are小题6:w__________ to make a promise to live by. An小题7:e____________ of some being values are: kind, loving, generous, peaceful, wise and even powerful. By 小题8:a__________ on these values you give to others through your actions and you小题9:i_________ others by being a positive role model. Mastering being these personalities becomes your life 小题10:p__________.
Your having values are the feelings you need to create in order to be小题11:h_________. These could be companionship, 小题12:a_____________,support, being valued or financial security. This is what you receive. You take responsibility for filling your own needs by taking 小题13:s________ to create these feelings and conditions in your life.
When you make a promise to live by your being values, it becomes easier to make conscious(慎重的) choices 小题14:r________ than reactionary(反动的) ones. If your usual pattern is to talk about your problems, you could小题15:c_________ to think and act like a calm person. A calm person might go for a walk, or set a time 小题16:l_________ before responding. If your usual pattern is to worry, you could choose to act小题17:l_________ a responsible or wise person. In other words, you would act like the person you choose to be---this is the小题18:k_________ to personal power.
　　When you choose to act on your values, you not only feel good about yourself, you小题19:s_________ your chosen beliefs. Over time acting in this way changes how you see the world, and in小题20:t_______ the way other people think of you.                           

答案

小题1:without
小题2:burn
小题3: searching
小题4:divide
小题5: ideal
小题6:willing
小题7:example
小题8: acting
小题9:inspire
小题10:purpose
小题11: happy
小题12:achievement
小题13:steps
小题14:rather
小题15: choose
小题16: limit
小题17: like
小题18:key
小题19: strengthen
小题20: turn

解析

试题分析：文章介绍两种不同的价值观，一种是自身想成为的一种个性，一种是选择依照你的价值观行事，这样做可以改变你对世界的看法，也反过来改变人们对你的看法。
小题1:如果你给予，给予却没有用时间满足自己的需求。介词：without没有
小题2:如果你给予，给予却没有用时间满足自己的需求，你就会感到很累。Burn out筋疲力尽。
小题3:如果你索取而不回报，你的人生就不充实，你就会寻找方法填补你生活中的空虚。动词：寻找： searching
小题4:我把价值观分成两种。动词：分配：divide
小题5:你的价值观就是你想成为的理想的人的性格。形容词：理想的： ideal
小题6:我建议我的客户选择三个他们愿意承诺的生活价值观。形容词：愿意的：willing
小题7:后面的kind, loving, generous, peaceful, wise and even powerful.都是价值观的例子： example
小题8:通过依照这些你通过你的行为向别人展示的价值观行事， acting on依照什么行事
小题9:你用积极的榜样激励别人。动词：激励：inspire
小题10:掌握这些个性成为你的人生目标。名词：目标：purpose
小题11:拥有价值观是你为了幸福需要创造的价值观。形容词：快乐，幸福： happy
小题12:这可能是同伴，成就，支持，和被重视或是财政的安全感。名词：成就：achievement
小题13:你有责任满足自己的需求通过采取措施来创造这些感觉和条件。Take  steps采取措施
小题14:当你许诺要有价值的或者你就会很容易做出慎重的选择而不是反动的选择。Rather than而不是
小题15: 你会选择像一个冷静的人一样思考。动词：选择：choose
小题16:一个冷静的人可能会去散步，或是在回答前确定一个时间限制。名词：限制： limit
小题17:如果你的选择是担心，你就会选择像一个负责人的人。形容词：像： like
小题18:这是个人力量的关键。名词：关键：key
小题19:当你选择依照你的价值观行事，你就会加强你选择的价值观。动词：加强strengthen
小题20:过了一段时间，这样做可以改变你对世界的看法，也反过来改变人们对你的看法。in turn  反之