邵帅今年12岁，是徐州矿大附小的学生，为救治患上急性白血病的母亲，毅然献出骨髓。“没有妈哪有我啊！我一刻都不想离开妈妈。”邵帅这样说。“帅二十，献骨髓，此大孝，无人及。”这是网友为邵帅编出的新三字经。
（1）从“邵帅救母”的事迹中，你能感悟到什么？
                                                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                                                              
                                                           父母说话让人烦
心理老师姓韩，同学们可喜欢他了，这不，几位同学又找他聊天，讨论如何处理和父母的关系！
燕子说：“刚上初二，我就发现，我妈真的老了。比如给我买衣服，妈妈老盯在特幼稚的款式上；剪头发，一定要剪她选的样子；上学，她嘱咐放学早回家；放学，她要问今天讲什么……真烦啊！”
晓明嫌老爸限制他上网，不懂还老说外行话；小远认为自己是大人，凡事想自己动手，妈妈坚决不同意，母子俩正闹别扭呢……
韩老师不慌不忙地问：“听说过‘代沟’吗？”
“听说过！自从上了初二，我和妈妈就成了冤家了。为什么我们和父母冲突不断？” 小远问。
（2）请你帮助韩老师回答小远提出的问题。
                                                                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                             
（3）我们中学生应怎样做才能较好地解决与父母的矛盾？
                                                                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                              
                                                                                                                                                              

某市举办“德行天下从头起——我为父母梳次头”大型亲子活动。当孩子给父母梳头时，很多家长禁不住流下眼泪。这一活动给我们的启示是[     ]
A．孝敬回报父母要从小事做起
B．很多学生平常不太关心父母
C．父母的爱是最无私真挚的爱
D．孝敬父母就是要给父母梳头

小兵14岁生日那天，班上几个要好的同学都要参加他的生日聚会，小兵也想利用这个机会和同学们加深友谊。可家境并不富裕，父母上班又忙。于是小兵准备采取下列做法，其中正确的是

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A．把想法告诉父母，听取他们意见
B．坚决要求父母给自己过生日
C．决定放弃，然后一个人独自生气
D．不和父母沟通，积极准备过生日

初中生明明在学习上从来不让父母操心；在家里还经常帮助妈妈做些家务活。可是最近的一件事情让明明很烦心：爸爸在一次酒后驾车中闯了红灯，爸爸要求明明帮助隐瞒事情的真相；他答应了爸爸的要求，觉得这样才是“孝子”。结合材料，谈谈我们应该如何孝敬父母。 
                                                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                                                              
                                                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                                                                
                                                                                                                                                                
                                                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                                                               

小丽是我县某中学八年级学生，在她的“成长记录袋”中，有一则成长记录：我最近很烦恼：父母唠叨期中考试要考出好成绩；老师批评我上课开小差；班上一名男同学对我有好感并给我写了一封情书，我该怎么办？。
（1）请你帮小丽分析一下是哪些原因引起了她的烦恼？
                                                                                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                           
（2）面对男同学的好感和情书，小丽考虑到有以下几种选择：
A．当众找到这位男生，严辞拒绝。
B．找恰当的时机，委婉的表明自己的态度，拒绝这位男生。
C．接受并偷偷地与这位男生开始单独交往你认为最合理的是：               。理由是什么？（友情提醒：不选的理由也要说一说。） 
                                                                                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                            
                                                                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                           
（3）在家庭中，我们应该如何与父母做朋友？